Every person up to last day must take care of his education. (M. Adzeglio)
Education needs three things: talent, science, exercise. (Aristotle)
In the matter of education, the development of skills must precede the development of the mind. (Aristotle)
He who wishes to bring up a child well is doomed to always adhere to just views. (O. Balashk)
There is nothing more useless and even more harmful than instructions, even the best ones, if they are not supported by examples, are not justified in the eyes of the student by the entirety of the reality surrounding him. (V. G. Belinsky)
Initial education should see in the child not an official, not a poet, not a craftsman, but a person who could later be one or the other, without ceasing to be a person. (V. G. Belinsky)
There is no such a bad person, whom a good upbringing would not make him better. (V. G. Belinsky)
Whoever has not been a student will not be a teacher. (Boethius)
A habit is strongest when it begins in youth; we call this education, which is, in essence, nothing but early habits. (F. Bacon)
Education is not limited to school. (P. Valerie)
Education develops abilities, but does not create them. (F. Voltaire)
If children are allowed to do whatever they please, and besides that, to have the stupidity to give them reasons for their whims, then we will deal with the worst way of education, then children develop a regrettable habit of special unrestraint, of peculiar philosophizing. to selfish interest, the root of all evil. (G. Hegel)
Education is primarily to seed our hearts with habits beneficial to the individual and society. (K. Helvetius)
The more perfect the education, the happier the nations. (K. Helvetius)
Nine-tenths of the people we meet are what they are - good or bad, useful or useless - thanks to their upbringing. (D. Locke)
Children are often smarter than adults and always sincere. (M. Gorky)
Education is a scraper that can flatten a tree, but which will never make an ebony out of spruce. (P. Decursel)
Education happens all the time, even when you are not at home. (A.S. Makarenko)
It takes a genius to teach others
It takes a strong soul. (N.A. Nekrasov)
To educate means to prepare for life... You have to learn at school, but you have to learn much more when you leave school. (D.I. Pisarev)
Character is nothing but a long-term habit. (Plutarch)
Of all the best fruits comes from a good upbringing. (K. Prutkov)
Education is the acquisition of good habits. (Plato)
How is a person?It is not so easy for children to explain how a person works, and it is even more difficult to understand the work of our complex ...
The greatest mistake in education is excessive haste. (J.-J. Rousseau)
If pedagogy wants to educate a person in all respects, then it must first get to know him also in all respects. (K.D. Ushinsky)
The purpose of education is not to allow love for oneself to drown out love for one's neighbor. Nature endows with inclinations, education opposes them with habits. (P. Buast)
Youth loves to be encouraged rather than taught. (I.W. Goethe)
A new vessel smells for a long time of what it was filled with for the first time. (Horace)
Nothing in the world purifies, ennobles, and preserves adolescence so much as a strongly aroused public interest. (A. I. Herzen)
Those from whom we learn are rightly called our teachers, but not everyone who teaches us deserves that name. (I. Goethe)
The true student learns to develop the unknown with the help of the known, and thereby draws closer to the teacher. (I. Goethe)
Learn from those you love. (I. Goethe)
Loving children is what a chicken can do. But to be able to educate them is a great state affair that requires talent and a broad knowledge of life. (M. Gorky)
A teacher, if he is honest, should always be an attentive student. (M. Gorky)
Our teacher is our reality. (M. Gorky)
A simple, uncouth person can be re-educated, but a person who imagines himself refined is incorrigible. (W. Gaslitt)
To fashion a beautiful statue and breathe life into it is good; but to develop a young mind, mold a young soul in your own way and breathe into it a sense of truth - even better. (V. Hugo)
The educator himself must be what he wants to make the pupil. (V. I. Dal)
Neither art nor wisdom can be achieved unless they are learned. (Democritus)
Education is an ornament in happiness and a refuge in misfortune. (Democritus)
A child knows how to love the one who loves him, and he can only be brought up with love. (F. E. Dzerzhinsky)
Excessive strictness and blind discipline are damned teachers for children. (F. E. Dzerzhinsky)
By intimidation, only meanness, depravity, hypocrisy, vile cowardice, careerism can be cultivated in a child. (F. E. Dzerzhinsky)
The teacher, the way of his thoughts - that is the most important thing in any training and education. (A. Diesterweg)
True education strives for natural development, but not for premature maturity. (A. Diesterweg)
In education lies the great secret of the improvement of human nature. (I. Kant)
A person can become a person only through education. He is what education makes of him. (I. Kant)
Light has long been called a stormy ocean: but happy is he who sails with a compass. And this is a matter of education. (N. M. Karamzin)
Great is the teacher who does what he teaches. (Cato the Elder)
Education is the highest of blessings, but only when it is of the first class, otherwise it is good for nothing. (R. Kipling)
In everything where the word serves as an intermediary between people, and especially in teaching, it is inconvenient both to speak and not to speak. (V. O. Klyuchevsky)
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Teachers were given the floor not to lull their own thoughts, but to awaken someone else's. (V. O. Klyuchevsky)
To be a good teacher, you need to love what you teach and love those you teach. (V. O. Klyuchevsky)
Without examples, it is impossible to teach properly or to learn successfully. (L. Columella)
He who knows little can teach little. (J. Comenius)
It is easy to follow correctly those who lead correctly. (J. Comenius)
There is nothing more difficult than to re-educate a person who is poorly educated. (J. Comenius)
Absolutely unreasonable is he who considers it necessary to teach children not to the extent that they can assimilate, but to the extent that he himself wishes. (J. Comenius)
Let it be an eternal law: to teach and learn everything through examples, instructions and application in practice. (J. Comenius)
Happy is that school which teaches zealously to study and do what is good, even more zealously the best, and most zealously the best. (J. Comenius)
There are children with a sharp mind and inquisitive, but wild and stubborn. Such people are usually hated in schools and almost always considered hopeless; meanwhile, great people usually come out of them, if only they are properly educated. (J. Comenius)
Only that in a man is firmly and reliably absorbed into his nature in his first period of life. (J. Comenius)
Only in a team can a child's personality develop most fully and comprehensively. (N. K. Krupskaya)
To punish children for misdeeds they did not commit, or at least severely punish them for petty offenses, means to lose all their trust and respect. (J. La Bruyère)
We would not believe in teaching, upbringing and education if it were driven only into school and cut off from a turbulent life. (V. I. Lenin)
If you know the means to strengthen the body, temper the will, ennoble the heart, refine the mind and balance the mind, then you are an educator. (Sh. Letourneau)
The world exists not for us to know it, but for us to educate ourselves in it. (G. Lichtenberg)
It is pointless on the part of the educator to talk about the curbing of passions if he gives free rein to any of his own passions; and fruitless will be his efforts to eradicate in his pupil the vice or obscene trait that he admits in himself. (D. Locke)
In an ill-bred man, boldness takes the form of rudeness; learning becomes in him pedantry; wit - buffoonery, simplicity - uncouthness, good nature - flattery. (D. Locke)
A teacher is the person who must pass on to the new generation all the valuable accumulations of centuries and not pass on prejudices, vices and diseases. (A. V. Lunacharsky)
Education is the bread of the soul. (D. Mazzini)
There can be no good educator who does not own facial expressions, who cannot give his face the necessary expression or restrain his mood. The teacher must be able to organize, walk, joke, be cheerful, angry. The educator must behave in such a way that every movement educates him, and must always know what he wants at the moment and what he does not want. If the educator does not know this, whom can he educate? (A. S. Makarenko)
What to do with the whole family on a quiet family evening?Almost all modern families, having gathered together in the evening, either sit buried in computers, tablets ...
It is impossible to educate a courageous person if you do not put him in such conditions when he could show courage, no matter what - in restraint, in a direct open word, in some deprivation, in patience, in courage. (A. S. Makarenko)
No matter how many correct ideas are created about what needs to be done, but if you do not cultivate the habit of overcoming long-term difficulties, I have the right to say that you have not cultivated anything. (A. S. Makarenko)
It is impossible to teach a person to be happy, but it is possible to educate him so that he is happy. (A. S. Makarenko)
If you do not demand much from a person, then you will not get much from him. (A. S. Makarenko)
Combining great trust with great demand is the style of our upbringing. (A. S. Makarenko)
It educates everything: people, things, phenomena, but first of all and for the longest time - people. Of these, parents and teachers are in the first place. (A. S. Makarenko)
If we are well educated, we do not suffer from any limitation in our sense pleasures. (B. Mandeville)
Teachers, as local luminaries of science, must stand at the full height of modern knowledge in their specialty. (D. I. Mendeleev)
All the pride of the teacher is in the students, in the growth of the seeds sown by him. (D. I. Mendeleev)
We are all born sweet, pure and spontaneous; therefore, we must be educated to become full members of society. (Judith Martin)
For the education of young minds, the most useful is the useless. (Georges Duhamel)
The best way to make children good is to make them happy. (Oscar Wilde)
Do you know what the surest way to make your child unhappy is to teach him not to meet with anything. (Rousseau J.-J.)
If you yield to a child, he will become your master; and in order to make him obey, you will have to negotiate with him every minute. (Rousseau J.-J.)
Many troubles have their roots precisely in the fact that a person from childhood is not taught to control his desires, they are not taught to correctly relate to the concepts of can, must, cannot. (Sukhomlinsky V. A.)
The best school of discipline is the family. (Smiles S.)
main function new family there should be a function of educating a person and a citizen. (Gramsci A.)
The main meaning and purpose of family life is the upbringing of children. The main school of raising children is the relationship of husband and wife, father and mother. (Sukhomlinsky V. A.)
Not tyranny, not anger, not shouting, not pleading, not begging, but a calm, serious, and business-like order—this is what should outwardly express the technique of family discipline. Neither you nor your children should doubt that you have the right to such an order, as one of the senior authorized members of the team. (Makarenko A.S.)
Willfulness should be put out sooner than a fire. (Heraclitus)
Let the first lesson of the child be obedience, then the second may be what you consider necessary. (Fuller T.)
The best thing we can give our children is to teach them to love themselves. (Louise Hay)
Before getting married, I had six theories about parenting; Now I have six children and not a single theory. (John Wilmot)
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How to raise children, everyone knows, except for those who have them . (Patrick O'Rourke)
The purpose of education is to teach our children to do without us. (Ernst Legowe)
There was a time when nothing was expected of children but obedience; now everything is expected of them except obedience. (Anatole Breuillard)
Comrades bring up much better than parents, because they are not characterized by pity. (André Maurois)
The first problem of parents is to teach children how to behave in polite society; the second is to find this decent society. (Robert Orben)
Those who do not need education lend themselves well to education. (Fazil Iskander)
He who does not remember his own childhood quite clearly is a bad educator. (Maria Ebner-Eschenbach)
No matter how much you educate a person, he still wants to live well. (Boris Zamyatin)
Do not make the children shed tears too often, otherwise they will have nothing to drop over your grave. (Pythagoras)
A child needs your love the most just when he least deserves it. (Erma Bombeck)
Do not make an idol out of a child: when he grows up, he will require sacrifices. (Pierre Buast)
If the child does not feel that your house belongs to him too, he will make the street his home. (Nadine de Rothschild)
Educate... the most difficult thing. You think: well, it's all over now! It wasn't there, it was just beginning! (Lermontov M. Yu.)
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Education without a comprehensive enrichment of one's own life experience is absurd.
E. Telman
Education is a great thing: it decides the fate of a person.
B. Belinsky
Education - investments at future interest, the income from which does not depend on the amount of investments.
V. Zubkov
Education lies in the fact that the older generation passes on their experience, their passion, their beliefs to the younger generation.
A. Makarenko
Education is the highest of blessings, but only when it is of the first class, otherwise it is good for nothing.
R. Kipling
Education should be based on two foundations - morality and prudence: the first supports virtue, the second protects from other people's vices. If only morality is the only support, you will bring up only dupes or martyrs; if only prudence - some prudent egoists.
I. Chamfort
Education is the impact on the hearts of those whom we educate.
Tolstoy
Education is the influence of one person on another in order to force the educated person to acquire certain moral habits.
L. Tolstoy
Education is an art, the application of which must be perfected by many generations.
I. Kant
Education is a definite, purposeful and systematic influence on the psychology of the educated person in order to instill in him the qualities desired by the educator.
M. Kalinin
Education is a kind of birth.
G. Lichtenberg
Education is an ornament in happiness and a refuge in misfortune.
Democritus
Education means the nourishment of the child's abilities, and not the creation of those new abilities that are not in it.
D. Mazzini
Education has three main parts: physical education; moral education, which has the subject of education of the heart, and rational education, which is engaged in enlightenment or education of the mind.
N. Novikov
Education aims to make a person an independent being, that is, a being with free will.
G. Hegel
Education is the best provision for old age.
Aristotle
Education is an educational process, at the beginning of which the child is taught to speak, and at the end to be silent.
L. Levinson
Education is a science that teaches our children to do without us.
E. Leguwe
Education is a scraper that can level a tree, but which does not make an ebony out of spruce.
A. Decursel
The upbringing of children is only self-improvement, to which nothing helps as much as children.
L. Tolstoy
Raising children is a risky business. For in case of success, the latter is acquired at the cost of great labor and care, in case of failure, grief is incomparable with any other.
Democritus
The upbringing of a personality is the upbringing of such a stable moral principle, thanks to which a person himself becomes a source of beneficial influence on others, he himself is educated and, in the process of self-education, even more asserts his own moral principle.
V. Sukhomlinsky
The upbringing of a person in the spirit of morality consists precisely in the fact that actions that are useful to society become an instinctive need for him.
V. Plekhanov
The upbringing of a person is the task of the school. True enlightenment is a powerful source of courage and strength to fight for the truth. N. Pirogov.
The upbringing of a person is the formation of the spiritual need of a person in a person.
V. Sukhomlinsky
Education forms life ideals, education opens the way to their achievement.
Ilya Shevelev
To educate is to prepare for life.
Dmitry Pisarev
There are no children, there are people.
Janusz Korczak
Education is what remains when all else is lost.
Nadine de Rothschild
A good upbringing is when others feel good.
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Vl. Nemirovich-Danchenko
An educator can only be one who can penetrate into a child's soul, and we adults do not understand children, because we no longer understand our own childhood.
Education must find its way between the Scylla of complete freedom of action and the Charybdis of prohibition.
Sigmund Freud
Good parenting is the ability to endure the bad parenting of others.
"Pshekrui"
We are all born sweet, pure and spontaneous; therefore, we must be educated to become full members of society.
Judith Martin
Education is everything. The peach was in the past a bitter almond; cauliflower is nothing but ordinary cabbage with higher education.
Education is the acquisition of good habits.
Plato
The best way to make children good is to make them happy.
It is much easier to preach from the pulpit, to entice from the platform, to teach from the pulpit, than to bring up one child.
Alexander Herzen
Everyone knows how to raise children, except for those who have them.
Patrick O'Rourke
The purpose of education is to teach our children to do without us.
Ernst Legowe
There was a time when nothing was expected of children but obedience; now everything is expected of them except obedience.
Anatole Breuillard
Parents no longer raise children - they finance them.
"Pshekrui"
Comrades bring up much better than parents, because they are not characterized by pity.
André Maurois
The first problem is to teach children how to behave in polite society; the second is to find this decent society.
Robert Orben
The misfortune of Russians is that they have beautiful but bad wives and mothers; Russian women are masters of falling in love and being liked, but they can neither love nor educate.
Vasily Klyuchevsky
It costs more to entertain a child today than it used to cost to educate his father.
Vaughn Monroe
When you talk to children, it goes in one ear and out the other. Because there is nothing between the ears.
Robert Orben
If you have nothing more to say to your child, tell him to go wash up.
Edgar Watson Howe
Do not take your child to the Museum of Ancient Sculpture, otherwise he will ask you why his leaf has not grown.
Ramon Gomez de la Serna
He who does not remember his own childhood quite clearly is a bad educator.
Maria Ebner Eschenbach
A babysitter is a caregiver who allows children to do only what they are capable of at their age.
In raising children, the main thing is that they do not notice this.
Boys love dogs. These are the only living creatures from which they do not hear lectures.
Television has transformed the American child from an impregnable fortress into an unmovable object.
Lawrence Peter
The torture chamber as imagined by a child: a living room without a TV.
There would be no problem with children if they had to cut down trees to power the TV.
Bill Vaughn
It was good to be away, but they didn’t let me cry.
I love children, especially crying ones: they are usually taken away immediately.
Nancy Mitford
Poisoning children is cruel. But something must be done with them!
Daniil Kharms
The best thing we can give our children is to teach them to love themselves.
Louise Hay
Conscience is what your mother told you before you were six years old.
Brock Chisholm
It happens, weak parents say about the misdeeds of their children. No, it doesn't happen, it develops.
Maria Ebner Eschenbach
Young men often think that they are natural, when in fact they are simply ill-mannered and rude.
François La Rochefoucauld
The result of a good upbringing is a virtue that the most arrogant people always respect.
Philip Chesterfield
Your boy will not get into good habits unless you send him to a good school.
Hector Hugh Munro
Rational education makes a person less happy so that his environment is less unhappy.
Tadeusz Kotarbinski
Now a good upbringing is just a hindrance. It shields you from too much.
Oscar Wilde
To educate means to develop immunity to television.
Marshall McLuhan
Conscience: that which makes a boy confess everything to his mother before he gets ahead of him.
Lawrence Peter
Self-education is the most difficult kind of self-service.
Evgeniusz Korkosh
No matter how much you educate a person, he still wants to live well.
Boris Zamyatin
For the education of young minds, the most useful is the useless.
Georges Duhamel
Before getting married, I had six theories about parenting; Now I have six children and not a single theory.
John Wilmot
Those who do not need education lend themselves well to education.
Fazil Iskander
To change a person, you need to start with him.
Victor Hugo
The educator himself must be educated.
Karl Marx
Children do not need teachings, but examples.
Joseph Joubert
Children need to be pampered - then real robbers grow out of them.
Evgeny Schwartz
Do not make the children shed tears too often, otherwise they will have nothing to drop over your grave.
Pythagoras
A child needs your love the most just when he least deserves it.
Erma Bombek
Do not make an idol out of a child: when he grows up, he will require sacrifices.
Pierre Buast
Be gentle with this boy: you are dealing with an extremely sensitive, easily excitable bastard.
L. & N. Store"
If the child does not feel that your house belongs to him too, he will make the street his home.
Nadine de Rothschild
Before you reproach your son for the fact that his pockets are stuffed with all sorts of rubbish, first look in your purse.
Unknown American
If you want your children to finally grow up, try to grow up first.
Unknown American
Children must receive from us. firstly, the roots, and secondly, the wings.
American saying
A child is not a vessel to be filled, but a fire to be kindled.
Paraphrased by Plutarch
The upbringing of a child must begin at least one hundred years before his birth.
Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr.
It is quite possible to bring up children according to the book, but it should be remembered that a special book is needed for each child.
Children feed on milk and praise.
Mary Lam
Educational impressions are like letters carved on the bark of trees and growing with them.
Julie de Lespinas
Raising a child is easy. It's hard to love the result of upbringing.
Werner Schneider
Whether we like it or not, the child is the hardest to handle. - the one we are most proud of.
Minion McLaughlin
The upbringing of a child was right if, when he grew up, he was able to pay for his own psychoanalyst.
Nora Ephron
If you absolutely want to use yours for edifying purposes, then let it serve as a warning rather than an example.
George Bernard Shaw
It's a shame that decent and useful people for society grow out of tomboys no less than from obedient children.
Mark Twain
No matter how old a mother is, she never ceases to look for signs of change for the better in her thirty- and forty-year-old children.
Florida Scott-Maxwell
Education is an attempt to wean children from imitating adults.
Robert Lembke
The meaning of education is self-defense from children.
Maximilian Voloshin
Parents are not interested in fairness; they are interested in peace.
Bill Cosby
Don't worry that the children never listen to you; worry about it. that they are always watching you.
Robert Fulham
It is very difficult for a child to behave decently if he has never seen how it is done.
Boys love dogs. Egos are the only living beings from which they do not hear lectures.
“14,000 Quips & Quotes”
If you are really preparing a child for life, do not teach him to obey - teach him to command!
Fran Lebowitz
Education is helping a person to become himself when this does not happen by itself.
V. Gavrilov
Education is an educational process, at the beginning of which the child is taught to speak, and at the end to be silent.
L. Levinson
The upbringing of a man or woman is tested by how they behave during a quarrel.
B. Show
Education, if it wants a person to be happy, should educate him not for happiness, but prepare him for the work of life.
K. Ushinsky
One-sided artificial education, with its temporary and applied goals, received at school, sooner or later comes into conflict with life, which constantly requires the fullness and comprehensive development of human abilities.
N. Pirogov
Good parenting is the ability to hide that you have a very high opinion of yourself and a very low opinion of your interlocutor.
Mark Twain
Education lends itself well only to those who do not need education.
Pedagogical reality
The art of education has the peculiarity that it seems familiar and understandable to almost everyone, while others even think it is easy - and the more understandable and easier it seems, the less a person is familiar with it, theoretically or practically.
K. Ushinsky
To educate - to accustom to what we do not know how to teach.
G. Levitas
By educating others, we educate ourselves first and foremost.
A. Ostrogorsky
In a badly brought up person, courage becomes rudeness, learning - pedantry, wit - knavery, simplicity - uncouthness, good nature - flattery.
D. Locke
You can influence others only by confessing your convictions with your life.
L. Tolstoy
Where there is more severity, there is more sin.
A. Ostrovsky
Father's strictness is a wonderful medicine: it has more sweet than bitter.
Epictetus
Education is terribly difficult, incomprehensible and insanely interesting. We made a selection of quotes that will help you become wise, understanding, listening and hearing parents.
1. Do not offend children with ready-made formulas, formulas are empty; enrich them with images and pictures that show the connecting threads. Do not burden children with a dead weight of facts; teach them techniques and methods that will help them to comprehend. (Antoine de Saint-Exupery)
2. Children who are treated with respect and support are more emotionally stable than those who are constantly protected. (Tim Seldin, Montessori Encyclopedia)
4. Children partly adopt pessimism from adults. They, like a sponge, absorb both what you say and how you say it. (Martin Seligman, The Optimistic Child)
5. Giving children rewards all the time is not good. Through this they become selfish, and hence a corrupt mindset develops. (Kant I.)
6. There is a rational grain in allowing the baby to break a cup or plate. (Tim Seldin, Montessori Encyclopedia)
7. Habit is the strongest when it begins in youth; we call this education, which is, in essence, nothing but early habits. (Bacon F.)
8. Any real education is obtained only through self-education. (N.A. Rubakin)
9. One of the most important functions of creativity is to enable children to express what they cannot say in words. (Gene Van't Hal, "Creative Education")
10. Only a living example educates a child, not words, even the best ones, but not supported by deeds. (A. S. Makarenko)
11. Reading together with children can be an excellent means of emotional education. (John Gottman)
13. No matter how busy your loved one's schedule is, find time to have dinner together. (Julie Litcott-Hames, "Let Them Go")
14. Leave the kids alone, but be within reach in case you need them. (Astrid Lindgren)
15. Many parents think discipline means punishment. It really means learning. (Tim Seldin, Montessori Encyclopedia)
16. Only by instilling in your child an optimistic view of the world, you teach him to understand himself, to open his inner world and the world around him. (Martin Seligman, The Optimistic Child)
17. You will never be able to create wise men if you kill naughty children (J.-J. Rousseau)
18. Remember: children tend to believe their parents' words. If you tell your baby every day that he is harmful, he begins to consider himself that way. (John Gottman, The Emotional Intelligence of the Child)
19. The purpose of teaching a child is there to enable him to develop further without the help of a teacher. (E. Hubbard)
20. The best gift you can give your child is a happy and strong relationship between you, his parents. (John Gottman and Julie Schwartz-Gottman, "Child Trial")
The right book can be a good help in education. We chose as many as five to help deal with the difficulties of parenthood. They are all about how to motivate children in learning, inspire creativity and learn how to properly express their emotions.
Life is not fair. Money, power, fame and success are distributed extremely unevenly among people. Why is everything for some and nothing for others? The book shows what Bill Gates, the Beatles and Mozart have in common and why they managed to outdo their peers. "Geniuses and Outsiders" is not a "how to become successful" manual. This is an exciting journey into the world of the laws of life, which you can use to your advantage.
This book is a guide for parents who want to get closer to their children and help them learn to regulate their emotions. An experienced family psychologist, John Gottman, clearly shows that those stereotypes of behavior that we used to consider “correct” do not contribute to the development of a child’s emotional intelligence.
This book is written for teenagers who are thinking about the future, but do not yet know exactly what they want. It will help you determine your aspirations and outline a plan to achieve your goals, teach you how to motivate yourself and inspire you to great deeds.
A manifesto on the dangers of overprotection as an approach to parenting, written by a curator and dean at Stanford and a mother of two. It talks about the love and fear behind our involvement in their affairs. It looks at the harm we cause by overzealousness and ways to parent differently to achieve good results in the long run and help our children achieve even greater success.
In the pages of her book, Gene Van't Hal talks about how to develop in a child the ability to be creative, inherent in him from birth, and how to bring creativity into the daily life of the family. This book will help you:
A selection of wise sayings about parenting and family
Material Description: I offer you a selection of wise sayings whose purpose is to raise children.When our children call us conservatives, we take comfort in the fact that our grandchildren will avenge them for us. (I.D. Vilde)
Whoever cannot take it with kindness, will not take it with severity (A.P. Chekhov)
Beatings and abuse are like opium: the sensitivity to them quickly becomes dull, and the doses have to be doubled. (G. Beecher Stowe)
Let the child's first lesson be obedience. Then the second can be what you consider necessary. (B. Franklin)
The paradox of education lies in the fact that those who do not need education lend themselves well to education. (F. Iskander).
Every child is a genius to a certain extent, and every genius is a child to a certain extent. The affinity of both is found in naivety and sublime simplicity. (A. Schopenhauer)
Just as a medicine fails when the dose is too high, so are censure and criticism when they go beyond the measure of justice. (A. Schopenhauer)
Cherish your children's tears so they can shed them on your grave. (Pythagoras)
The love of parents for their children is always greater than the love of children for their parents. This discrepancy and injustice is compensated by their own children. (D. Jeremic)
Mother is the only deity on earth who does not know atheists. (E. Leguwe)
Few people like advice, and those who need it most love it the least. (F. Chesterfield)
Advice is like snow: the softer it lays down, the longer it lies and penetrates deeper. (N. Coleridge)
Keep calm, anger was never an argument. (D. Webster)
A person opens his mouth in anger and closes his eyes. (P. Cato)
When children have nothing to do, they engage in mischief. (G. Fielding)
The best way to raise good children is to make them happy. (O. Wilde)
A man who instills in his children the habits of industriousness provides for them better than if he left them an inheritance. (K. Whately)
If you have nothing more to say to the child, tell him to go wash up. (Howie)
A happy marriage is a structure that must be rebuilt every day. (A. Morua)
The great ingredients of happiness: to have something to do, something to love and something to hope for. (E.Chalmers)
If only parents could imagine how annoying they are to their children! (B. Shaw)
Until then, we will not be able to understand parental love until we ourselves become parents. (G. Beecher)
The best thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother. (Unknown author)
A secret pride lives in the heart of every person who rebels against tyranny. You can order a person, command him, but you cannot make him respect you. (Heitzlitt)
Understanding is a two-way street. (Eleanor Roosevelt)
Violence will never lead to anything good. (M. Luther)
Our needs are determined mainly not by nature, but by our upbringing and habits. (E. Fielding)
- At first, maternal education is most important, because morality should be planted in the child as a feeling. (G. Hegel)
Of all immoral relations in general, treating children as slaves is the most immoral. (G. Hegel)
When a person can call his mother in spirit native - this is a rare happiness. (M. Gorky)
Any guardianship that continues beyond the age of majority turns into usurpation. (V. Hugo)
Parents love their children with an anxious and condescending love that spoils them. There is another love, attentive and calm, which makes them honest, And such is the true love of a father. (D. Diderot)
Many children's games are an imitation of the serious activities of adults. (J. Korchak)
The mother must receive an appropriate education so that her behavior is moral towards the child. An ignorant mother will be a very bad teacher, despite all her good will and love. (I.I. Mechnikov)
In order to judge a child fairly and correctly, we need not to transfer him from his sphere to ours, but to move into his spiritual world ourselves. (N.I. Pirogov)
A person who truly respects the human personality must respect it in the child himself, starting from the moment when the child felt his "I" and separated himself from the world around him. (D.I. Pisarev)
What you yourself do for your parents, expect the same from your children. (D. Pittak)
Disrespect for ancestors is the first sign of immorality. (A.S. Pushkin)
First we teach our children, then we ourselves learn from them. (J. Rainis)
Nature wants children to be children before they become adults. If we want to break this order, we will produce early ripening fruits that will have neither maturity nor taste and will not slow down to spoil. Let childhood mature in children. (J.-J. Rousseau)
You will never be able to create wise men if you kill naughty children. (J.-J. Rousseau)
The child has his own special ability to see, think and feel; there is nothing more stupid than trying to replace their skill with ours. (J.-J. Rousseau)
Do you know what the surest way to make your child unhappy is to teach him not to meet with anything. (J.-J. Rousseau)
Many troubles have their roots precisely in the fact that a person from childhood is not taught to control his desires, they are not taught to correctly relate to the concepts of “possible”, “must”, “impossible”. (V.A. Sukhomlinsky)
Man has three calamities: death, old age, and bad children. No one can close the doors of his house from old age and death, but the children themselves can save the house from bad children. (V.A. Sukhomlinsky)
Children should live in a world of beauty, games, fairy tales, music, drawing, fantasy, creativity. (V. A. Sukhomlinsky)
He who does not instill anything useful in his son feeds a thief. (T. Fuller)
The child who endures less abuse grows up to be a more self-conscious person. (N.G. Chernyshevsky)
That educator of children who does not remember his childhood is bad. (M. Ebner-Eschenbach)
Do not anger children: who wants to beat as a child will want to kill when he grows up. (P. Buast)
There is no such a bad person who has not been made better by a good upbringing. (V.G. Belinsky)
In every person there is a Man with a capital letter, Sometimes it is difficult to extract it, sometimes it is impossible, but you should always try. (O.M. Kuvaev)
If children are allowed to do whatever they please, and besides that, to have the stupidity to give them reasons for their whims, then we will deal with the worst way of education, then children develop a regrettable habit, of a special unrestraint, of a peculiar philosophizing, to selfish interest - the root of all evil. (G. Hegel)
The educator himself must be what he wants to make the pupil. (V.I. Dal)
The educator himself must have intelligence, great self-control, kindness, high moral views. (M.I. Drahomanov)
He who knows little can teach little. (J. Comenius)
There is nothing more difficult than to re-educate a person who is poorly educated. (J. Comenius)
There are children with a sharp mind and inquisitive, but wild and stubborn. Such people are usually hated in schools and almost always considered hopeless; meanwhile, great people usually come out of them, if only they are properly educated. (J. Comenius)
It is impossible to teach a person to be happy, but it is possible to educate him so that he is happy. (A.S. Makarenko)
It educates everything: people, things, phenomena, but, above all and for the longest time, people. Of these, parents and teachers are in the first place. (A.S. Makarenko)
I condemn all violence in the upbringing of a young soul, which is raised in respect for honor and freedom. (M. Montaigne)
It is impossible to grow a full-fledged person without cultivating in him a sense of the Beautiful. (R. Tagore)
The goal of teaching a child is to enable him to develop further without the help of a teacher. (E. Hubbard)
A good upbringing most reliably protects a person from those who are badly brought up. (F. Chesterfield)
Learn from those you love. (I. Goethe)
Do not think that you are raising a child only when you talk to him, or teach him, or order him. You bring him up at every moment of your life, even when you are not at home. (A.S. Makarenko)
The habits of the fathers, both good and bad, turn into the vices of the children. (V.O. Klyuchevsky)
If you don't know what your kids are like, look at their friends. (Xun Tzu)
Childhood is that great time of life when the foundation is laid for the whole future of a moral person. (N.V. Shelgunov)
Moral deformity and criminality are the result of a lack of education and corruption that goes on from early childhood. (V.M. Bekhterev)
Over the years, emptiness and disappointment form in those young people whose childhood and adolescence was a thoughtless satisfaction of their needs. (V.A. Sukhomlinsky)
They are morally punished by the fact that they are denied respect and love. (I. Kant)
You will almost always achieve more with caress than with brute force. (Aesop)
If strictness leads to healing from a bad inclination, then this result is often achieved by planting another, even worse and more dangerous ailment - spiritual bruising. (D. Locke)
Convince first, then convince. (K.S. Stanislavsky)
Seek, as far as possible, by weakening parental authority, to replace it in the child's mind by that self-government that comes from the foreseeing of the consequences arising from this or that course of action. (G. Spencer)
Spiritual examples are undoubtedly stronger than good rules. (D. Locke)
A good example in a circle returns to the one who gave it, just as bad examples fall on the head of the instigators of evil. (L.A. Seneca)
Every time we do good to another being, we begin to feel better, because good deeds strengthen our nature.
- "Sincerity, balance, understanding of oneself and others - this is the key to happiness and success." (G. Selye, psychologist)
Happiness is a journey, not a destination. There is no other time to be happy except... NOW! Live, enjoy this moment.
The most important thing in this life is to help win. Even if it means slowing down or changing your own race. (Spinoza)
Sayings and thoughts of great people about education!
From the one who will raise the child depends on his future, his worldview, his whole life. caregiver kindergarten- this is a state of mind. He gives children the warmth of his heart. The job of an educator is not just a job. This is, first of all, the ability to renounce, the ability to give oneself completely, without a trace, to see the light in this.
I like to read smart, useful sayings. Raising children is a science more ancient than it might seem at first glance. Instilling virtues was given special attention in ancient times. Ancient philosophers spoke about education, creating aphorisms, which at that time were a “pedagogical” manual and were passed from mouth to mouth.
There are two difficult things in the world - to educate and manage. I. Kant
If a teacher combines love for work and for students, he is a perfect teacher. teacher. Lev Tolstoy
Education is the acquisition of good habits. Plato
You say: children make me tired. You're right. You explain: it is necessary to descend to their concepts. Drop, stoop, bend, shrink. You are wrong. We don’t get tired of that, but of the fact that we need to rise to their feelings. Rise, stand on tiptoe, stretch. To not offend.
... Adults should not be angry with children, because this does not correct, but spoils.
Janusz Korczak
Children should live in a world of beauty, games, fairy tales, music, drawing, fantasy, creativity. This world must surround the child even when we want to teach him to read and write. Yes, how the child will feel when climbing the first rung of the ladder of knowledge, what he will experience, depends on his entire further path to knowledge.
When you think of a child's brain, you imagine a delicate rose flower with a drop of dew trembling on it. What care and tenderness are needed so that, having picked a flower, not to drop a drop.
V. A. Sukhomlinsky
Children are holy and pure... We ourselves can crawl into any hole we like, but they must be wrapped in an atmosphere worthy of their rank. You can’t be obscene with impunity in their presence... you can’t make them the plaything of your mood: now gently kiss, now madly stamp your feet on them...
Anton Pavlovich Chekhov
Only that in a man is firmly and reliably absorbed into his nature in his first period of life.
Comenius Ya.
The art of education has the peculiarity that it seems familiar and understandable to almost everyone, and even easy to others, and the more understandable and easier it seems, the less a person is familiar with it theoretically or practically.
Ushinsky K. D.
The game is a huge bright window through which a life-giving stream of ideas and concepts about the world around flows into the spiritual world of the child. The game is a spark that ignites the flame of inquisitiveness and curiosity.
Sukhomlinsky V. A.
Janusz Korczak
A teacher without love for a child is like a singer without a voice, a musician without hearing, a painter without a sense of color. It is not for nothing that all the great teachers, dreaming of a school of joy and creating it, loved children immensely.
T. Goncharov
Children are holy and pure. You can not make them a toy of your mood.
A. Chekhov
No one in the world feels new things more than children. Children shudder at this smell, like a dog at a hare's footprint, and experience a madness that later, when we become adults, is called inspiration.
I. Babel
Nothing hurts more than having high hopes.
Cicero
I learn by teaching.
Seneca the Elder
Nine-tenths of the people we meet are what they are - good or bad, useful or useless - through education.
D. Locke
Pitiful is the student who does not surpass his teacher.
Leonardo da Vinci
Our teacher is our reality. M. Gorky
A bad teacher teaches the truth, a good teacher teaches to find it.
A. Diesterweg
A teacher is the person who must pass on to the new generation all the valuable accumulations of centuries and not pass on prejudices, vices and diseases.
A. V. Lunacharsky
The educator must behave in such a way that every movement educates him, and must always know what he wants at the moment and what he does not want. If the educator does not know this, whom can he educate?
A.S. Makarenko
No matter how many correct ideas are created about what needs to be done, but if you do not cultivate the habit of overcoming long-term difficulties, I have the right to say that you have not cultivated anything.
A.S. Makarenko
It is impossible to teach a person to be happy, but it is possible to educate him so that he is happy. But will it be true happiness?
A.S. Makarenko
If you do not demand much from a person, then you will not get much from him.
A.S. Makarenko
It takes more intelligence to teach another than to teach yourself.
M. Montaigne
To repeat the words of a teacher does not mean to be his successor.
DI. Pisarev
True education consists not so much in rules as in exercises.
J.J. Rousseau
Education should not only develop a person's mind and give him a certain amount of information, but should kindle in him a thirst for serious work, without which his life cannot be either worthy or happy.
K.D. Ushinsky
The main road of human education is persuasion.
K.D. Ushinsky
The goal of teaching a child is to enable him to develop further without the help of a teacher.
E. Hubbard
If you want to convince a man that he lives badly, live well; but do not persuade him with words. People believe what they see.
G. Toro
When the word does not hit, then the stick will not help.
Socrates
Be busy. It is the cheapest medicine on earth - and one of the most effective.
Dale Carnegie
He who flaunts erudition or learning has neither
Ernest Hemingway
At the age of 12-16, I became familiar with the elements of mathematics, including the basics of differential and integral calculus. At the same time, fortunately for me, I came across books in which not too much attention was paid to logical rigor, but it was well highlighted everywhere the main idea. The whole activity was truly fascinating; there were ups and downs in it, in terms of the strength of the impression they were not inferior to the “miracle” ...
Albert Einstein
Those who save on schools will build prisons.
Bismarck
Do not offend children with ready-made formulas, formulas are empty; enrich them with images and pictures that show the connecting threads. Do not burden children with a dead weight of facts; teach them techniques and methods that will help them to comprehend. Do not teach them that the benefit is the main thing. The main thing is the upbringing of the human in a person.
Antoine de Saint-Exupery
We are depriving children of a future if we continue to teach today the way we taught it yesterday.
D. Dewey
Do not kill the obscure mind of the child, let it grow and develop. Do not invent childish answers for him. When he starts asking questions, it means that the mind has earned it. Give him food for further work, answer as you would answer an adult.
DI. Pisarev
Consider that day and that hour unfortunate in which you did not learn anything new and did not add to your education.
Ya.A. Comenius
Letter to my son's teacher.
If you can, teach him to be interested in books... And give him free time too, so that he can reflect on eternal mysteries: birds in the sky, bees in the sun and flowers on the green slopes of the hill. When he is in school, teach him that it is more honorable to fail than to cheat... Try to give my son the strength not to follow the crowd when everyone is on the winning side... Teach him to listen to all people, but teach him also everything that he hears, to consider from the angle of truth and select only the good. Teach him not to listen to the howling crowd, but to stand up and fight if he thinks he is right. Treat it gently, but without undue tenderness, because only a test by fire makes steel of high quality. Teach him to always have high faith in himself, because then he will always have high faith in humanity.
Abraham Lincoln
Every child is an artist. The difficulty is to remain an artist beyond childhood.
Pablo Picasso
To be human means not only to have knowledge, but also to do for future generations what the previous ones did for us.
Georg Lichtenberg
The older the school, the more valuable it is. For the school is a collection of creative techniques, traditions, oral traditions accumulated over the centuries about departed scientists or living ones, their manner of working, their views on the subject of research. These oral traditions, accumulated over the centuries and not to be printed or communicated to those who are considered unsuitable for this - these oral traditions are treasures, the effectiveness of which is difficult even to imagine and evaluate. If you look for any parallels or comparisons, then the age of the school, its accumulation of traditions and oral traditions is nothing but the energy of the school, in an implicit form.
N.N. Luzin
Listen and you will forget, look and you will remember, do and you will understand.
Confucius
Study as if you are constantly feeling the lack of your knowledge, and as if you are constantly afraid of losing your knowledge.
Confucius
Researchers (Hayes, Bloom) have shown that it takes approximately ten years to acquire expert knowledge in any broad field of human activity, including chess, music composition, drawing, piano playing, swimming, tennis, as well as conducting research in neuropsychology and topology. .
Moreover, it seems that in reality this period cannot be reduced: even Mozart, who showed outstanding musical abilities at the age of 4, it took another 13 years for him to start composing world-class music.
Samuel Johnson believes that it actually takes more than ten years: “Excellence in any field can only be achieved by hard work throughout a lifetime; it cannot be bought at a lower price."
And even Chaucer complained: "Life is so short that there is not enough time to master the skill"
Peter Norvig, "Learn to Program in Ten Years"
Our school has long taught badly and educates badly. And it is inadmissible that the position of a class teacher be an almost unpaid additional burden: it must be compensated by a decrease in the teaching load required from him. The current curricula and textbooks in the humanities are all doomed, if not to being discarded, then to complete reworking. And atheistic hammering should be stopped immediately. And we must also start not with children - but with teachers, because we have thrown them all over the edge of vegetation, into poverty; of the men who could, left teaching for better earnings. But school teachers should be a select part of the nation, called to this: they are entrusted with our entire future.
A.I. Solzhenitsyn
We are largely responsible for the development of the deposit invested in us.
A.I. Solzhenitsyn
Over the school, as over the cradle of the spirit of the people, it is necessary to be vigilant with tragic attention and spare no effort in order to uphold its tasks.
Menshikov
It is necessary to call for pedagogical work, as for the work of the sea, medical or the like, not those who seek only to ensure their lives, but those who feel a conscious vocation for this work and for science and foresee their satisfaction in it, understanding the general need of the people. .
DI. Mendeleev
In pedagogy elevated to the level of an art, as in any other art, it is impossible to measure the actions of all actors according to one standard, it is impossible to enslave them into one form; but, on the other hand, one cannot allow these actions to be completely arbitrary, wrong and diametrically opposed.
N.I. Pirogov
Socrates made the students speak first, and then he spoke himself.
Montaigne
The teacher should not only have knowledge, but also lead the right way of life. The second is even more important. Thiru Valluvar
One of the most malicious errors is the judgment that pedagogy is a science about a child, and not about a person. There are no children - there are people, but with a different scale of concepts, other sources of experience, other aspirations, a different play of feelings. A hundred children - a hundred people who will not be there tomorrow, but already now, today they are already people.
Janusz Korczak
A truly humane pedagogy is one that is able to involve children in the process of creating themselves.
Sh. Amonashvili
If pedagogy wants to educate a person in all respects, then it must first get to know him also in all respects.
K.D. Ushinsky
When little children come to school, their eyes light up. They want to learn a lot of new and interesting things from adults. They are sure that there is a happy road to knowledge ahead. Looking at the sad and indifferent faces of high school students in many lessons, you involuntarily ask yourself the question: “Who extinguished their radiant glances? Why did the desire and aspiration disappear?
Sh. Amonashvili
For recreation, I advise a high school student to play chess and read fiction. Playing chess in absolute silence, with full concentration is a wonderful tool that tones up the nervous system and disciplines thought.
V.A. Sukhomlinsky
Without chess, it is impossible to imagine a full-fledged education of mental abilities and memory. The game of chess should enter the life of elementary school as one of the elements of mental culture.
V.A. Sukhomlinsky
Accustom the student to work, make him not only love the work, but become so close to it that it becomes his second nature, accustom him to the fact that it was unthinkable for him otherwise than to learn something on his own; so that he independently thinks, searches, manifests himself, develops his dormant forces, develops a steadfast person out of himself.
A. Diesterweg
The school is a workshop where the thought of the younger generation is formed, you must hold it firmly in your hands if you do not want to let go of the future.
A. Barbus
Each person has inclinations, talents, talent for a certain type or several types (branches) of activity. It is precisely this individuality that must be skillfully recognized, then the life practice of the student should be directed along such a path so that in each period of development the child reaches, figuratively speaking, his ceiling.
V.A. Sukhomlinsky
Science should be fun, exciting and easy. So must be scientists.
Petr Kapitsa
I believe that it is impossible to become an educated person in any educational institution. But in any well-established educational institution, one can become a disciplined person and acquire a skill that will be useful in the future, when a person outside the walls of an educational institution begins to educate himself.
M. Bulgakov
The merits of a teacher cannot be judged by the size of the crowd following him.
R. Bach
A teacher must have an unusual amount of moral energy in order not to fall asleep under the lulling murmur of a monotonous teacher's life.
K.D. Ushinsky
Recognizing, revealing, revealing, nurturing, nurturing in each student his unique individual talent means raising the personality to a high level of flourishing human dignity.
V. A. Sukhomlinsky
The teacher is not the one who teaches, the teacher is the one who feels how the student is learning.
V. F. Shatalov
Talent is a spark of God, with which a person usually burns himself, illuminating the path of others with this own fire.
V.O.Klyuchevsky
Every person has a sun. Just let it shine.
Socrates
Not being able to express one's thoughts well is a disadvantage; but not to have independent thoughts is still much greater; independent thoughts flow only from self-acquired knowledge.
K.D. Ushinsky
Not a single teacher should forget that his main duty is to accustom pupils to mental work and that this duty is more important than the transmission of the subject itself.
K.D. Ushinsky
Three paths lead to knowledge: the path of reflection is the noblest path, the path of imitation is the easiest path, and the path of experience is the most bitter path.
Confucius
The attitude of the state towards the teacher is a state policy that indicates either the strength of the state or its weakness.
Bismarck
Make the student work with his hands, tongue and head! Encourage him to process the material, make it so habitual for him that he does not know how to do otherwise, feels restless when this is not done; so that he feels this inner need! Just as no one can eat, drink and digest food for him, that is, for his benefit, so no one else can think for him, learn for him; no one else can in any respect be his substitute. He has to achieve everything himself. What he himself does not acquire and develop in himself, he will not become and that he will not have. These provisions are as clear as a sunny day, yet thousands of people act as if these rules do not exist at all.
A. Diesterweg
The easier it is for the teacher to teach, the harder it is for the students to learn.
L. N. Tolstoy
The best thing we can give our children is to teach them to love themselves.
Louise Hay
Before getting married, I had six theories about parenting; Now I have six children and not a single theory.
John Wilmot
Everyone knows how to raise children, except for those who have them.
Patrick O'Rourke
The purpose of education is to teach our children to do without us.
Ernst Legowe
